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1st Step Newsletter   |   August 2026

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Executive Director’s Letter

Why Good People Sometimes Make Bad Choices

Portrait of 1st Step Male Diversion Program Executive Director David Phillips

Most of us have heard the old example from economist Adam Smith. We don't get our dinner because the butcher or the baker is generous. We get it because they act in their own self-interest. By serving others well, they earn a living. Self-interest, Smith argued, is one of the driving forces behind a healthy society.


Modern economics and much of criminology build on this idea through rational choice theory. The theory suggests that people generally weigh the costs and benefits of their actions and choose the option that seems most beneficial. While people may not always have perfect information, they typically act in ways that make sense from their own perspective.


At 1st Step, we agree with this principle, but we believe there is an important question that comes first.


How do people come to perceive their choices in the first place?


If a young man grows up surrounded by violence, instability, addiction, neglect, or hopelessness, the world he sees is very different from someone raised in a stable, supportive environment. His decisions may still be rational based on what he believes to be true. The problem is not necessarily that he is incapable of making rational decisions. The problem is that his perception of what is possible has been shaped by years of adverse developmental experiences.


A young man who believes legitimate employment is impossible may rationally choose to sell drugs. Someone who has never experienced trustworthy relationships may rationally avoid asking for help. Another may see violence as the safest way to protect himself because that is what life has consistently taught him.


These are rational choices, but they are based on distorted perceptions of reality.


This is where Choice-Enabled Habilitation (CEH) begins. CEH extends rational choice by recognizing that developmental experiences shape the opportunities people believe they have. Before we can expect different choices, we must help people develop different perceptions of themselves, others, and their future.


That is why 1st Step emphasizes a safe environment, trusting relationships, incentives, meaningful work, education, counseling, and opportunities for success. These experiences gradually expand what participants believe is possible. As their perception changes, so do the choices they make.


In other words, lasting change is not simply about convincing someone to make better decisions. It is about helping them see better possibilities.


When hope replaces hopelessness and opportunity replaces despair, rational choice begins to work for the individual rather than against him.


At 1st Step, we believe that changing choices starts by changing what people believe they can become.

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David Phillips

Executive Director and Co-Founder of the 1st Step Male Diversion Program

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Life Skills with Pursuit of Prosperity Strategies (POPS)

We are excited to announce our new partnership with Tarell Earl, Founder & Executive Director of Pursuit of Prosperity Strategies (POPS), a Tulsa-based nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering youth through life skills development, career planning, mentorship, and personal growth.


Through this collaboration, Mr. Earl is providing engaging Life Skills classes for the young men participating in the 1st Step Male Diversion Program. His instruction equips participants with practical tools to build healthy relationships, strengthen communication, develop leadership abilities, improve decision-making, and prepare for long-term personal and professional success.


This partnership reflects our shared commitment to helping young men overcome barriers, develop pro-social behaviors, and build a strong foundation for independent living, employment, and community involvement. By combining the evidence-based programming of 1st Step with the mentorship and life skills expertise of Pursuit of Prosperity Strategies, participants receive additional support to pursue productive, purpose-driven lives.


We are grateful to Tarell Earl and Pursuit of Prosperity Strategies for investing in the future of our young men and helping them develop the confidence and skills needed to achieve lasting success.

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PARTICIPANT HIGHLIGHT

Malcolm M. & Mainor L.

1st Step is proud to celebrate the incredible accomplishments of Malcolm M. and Mainor L. as they successfully completed welding training and became welding certified through Tulsa Tech with support from Prosper OK. They also earned certifications in forklift operation, OSHA 10, and Frontline Leadership.


These accomplishments represent their hard work, commitment, and determination to build a better future. Both young men invested in developing valuable career skills, increasing their opportunities, and preparing themselves for long-term success in the workforce.


We are excited to celebrate that Malcolm has continued his journey by becoming employed at S&M Manufacturing, while Mainor has started his career with AAON. Their success demonstrates what is possible when young men are provided with opportunities, support, and the encouragement to pursue their goals.


1st Step is incredibly grateful to Prosper OK for providing vocational training opportunities that allow our young men to gain valuable skills, earn certifications, and create pathways to meaningful employment and independence.


1st Step is extremely proud of Malcolm and Mainor for their achievements and the dedication they have shown toward personal growth, career development, and building productive futures.


Congratulations, Malcolm and Mainor! Your hard work and determination are creating new opportunities, and we are honored to be part of your journey.

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Introducing the 1st Step Warriors Basketball Team

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The 1st Step Male Diversion Program is proud to launch the 1st Step Warriors Basketball Team through an exciting partnership with Tulsa Sports & Events. This new initiative provides our young men with the opportunity to compete in an organized basketball league while promoting teamwork, discipline, physical wellness, and positive peer relationships.


The Warriors Basketball Team is more than just a recreational activity—it is an opportunity for participants to develop leadership skills, build confidence, strengthen communication, and learn the value of accountability both on and off the court. Through league competition, young men are challenged to work together, overcome adversity, and support one another while representing both 1st Step and their community with pride.


Participation in organized athletics reinforces many of the life skills emphasized throughout our habilitation model, including respect, perseverance, emotional regulation, healthy conflict resolution, teamwork, and commitment. Joining the Tulsa Sports & Events league also provides participants with meaningful opportunities to engage in the broader community, build positive social connections, and experience healthy competition in a supportive environment.


The 1st Step Warriors represent resilience, determination, and personal growth. As these young men continue their journey toward successful reintegration, the basketball program serves as another avenue for building character, strengthening relationships, improving physical health, and demonstrating that teamwork and perseverance lead to success far beyond the basketball court.


We are sincerely grateful to Tulsa Sports & Events for providing 1st Step with the opportunity to participate in this league and invest in the growth of our young men. Through this partnership, we are creating meaningful experiences that build confidence, strengthen character, foster positive community connections, and reinforce the life skills essential for long-term success. Together, we are advancing our mission of keeping young men out of prison by empowering them to build productive, purpose-driven lives and become positive contributors to their families and communities.

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PARTICIPANT HIGHLIGHT

Jeremiah H.

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1st Step is proud to celebrate an incredible milestone achieved by Jeremiah H., a dedicated participant who recently earned his GED through Union Adult Learning and his forklift certification through Goodwill’s training opportunities made possible through Prosper.


Jeremiah’s accomplishment represents his hard work, commitment, and determination to build a better future. He has continued to show that with the right support, perseverance, and willingness to grow, goals that once seemed out of reach can become reality.


We are incredibly proud of Jeremiah and the progress he continues to make. His success is a reminder that education, career development, and personal growth create pathways to independence and opportunity.


Congratulations, Jeremiah! Keep pushing forward — this is just the beginning! 

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Trauma: Understanding the Story Behind the Behavior

by Cody Jones

One of the most important things we help our young men learn at 1st Step is the impact

and influence that trauma has had on their behavior and lives. Trauma is not limited to

or defined by a single event. It can include experiences that include growing up with

addiction, violence, neglect, loss, abandonment, or chronic instability. Many of the

young men in our program learned from an early age that the world was unpredictable

and unsafe. As a result, they developed ways of surviving that may have protected

them at one time but ended up becoming barriers to building a stable and fulfilling life.



Trauma can have lasting effects on the brain, body, and emotional functioning of an

individual. The effects we often see in our men include remaining in a heightened state

of alertness, reacting with anger or defensiveness, struggling to regulate emotions, and

finding it difficult to trust others. These responses are often adaptive survival strategies

that they have developed in response to adverse experiences and are not merely

reflections of their personal character. Recognizing the role of trauma in the lives of the

men we are striving to help, allows us to move beyond the question of "What's wrong

with you?" and instead consider, "What happened to you?" This gives us a place to

begin healing while also encouraging personal responsibility and accountability.


At 1st Step, our focus on trauma helps participants begin to recognize these patterns,

build emotional regulation skills, and develop healthier ways of coping. In their

individual therapy and group discussions, they are learning that their past doesn’t have

to define their future. Healing from trauma is not about forgetting the past but learning

healthier ways to cope and building resilience that allows us to continue to move

forward with confidence and hope. Recovery is not just the absence of poor choices and

behavior; it is also the ability to live a life no longer controlled by the wounds of the past.

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New Programs at 1st Step

Expanding Financial Literacy Through New Community Partnerships


The 1st Step Male Diversion Program is proud to launch a new Financial Literacy Cohort in partnership with Chase Bank, further strengthening our commitment to preparing young men for long-term financial independence.


Through this partnership, participants receive practical financial education on topics such as budgeting, banking, saving, building credit, debt management, fraud prevention, and establishing healthy financial habits. These skills are essential for creating stability, achieving personal goals, and reducing barriers that can contribute to future justice system involvement.


This exciting collaboration aligns seamlessly with our ongoing partnership with the Goodwill Financial Empowerment Center, where participants also work one-on-one with certified Financial Empowerment Coaches. Together, these partnerships provide both classroom instruction and individualized coaching, allowing young men to apply what they learn while receiving personalized guidance to improve their financial well-being.


By combining financial education with individualized support, 1st Step is equipping participants with the knowledge and confidence to make informed financial decisions, build lasting economic stability, and create brighter futures for themselves and their families.


We are grateful to Chase Bank and the Goodwill Financial Empowerment Center for investing in our young men and helping advance our mission of keeping young men out of prison by empowering them with the tools they need to succeed.


New PRS Health Class Empowers Young Men at 1st Step


The 1st Step Male Diversion Program is excited to introduce a new PRS Health Class led by Curtis George, Peer Recovery Support Specialist (PRS) and (CM II). This innovative class is designed to equip our young men with the knowledge and practical skills needed to take ownership of their physical, mental, and emotional well-being.


Drawing from his lived experience and professional training, Curtis creates a welcoming environment where participants can openly discuss topics such as healthy lifestyle choices, stress management, nutrition, sleep, self-care, substance use recovery, chronic health conditions, and accessing healthcare resources. The class also emphasizes the connection between overall wellness, personal responsibility, and long-term success.


At 1st Step, we believe that recovery and habilitation extend beyond employment and housing. Good health is a critical foundation for building stable, productive lives. Through this new class, participants gain valuable tools to make informed decisions, develop healthier habits, and improve their quality of life both during and after the program.


We are grateful to Curtis George for bringing his passion, knowledge, and commitment to this important addition to our curriculum. His leadership continues to strengthen our mission of keeping young men out of prison by helping them build healthier futures and become positive contributors to their families and communities.

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